Village Life in China: PIL must live in a different home like 30 minutes away: Oh and by the way — my daughter currently wears a Wonder Woman costume and is quite proud she was able to make the decision to do so. Living with her for 3 weeks had been like hell. In-law troubles can also increase stress, and even impact health. When she is mad at me, for her own reasons, she comes to my house to visit and she does not even say hello to me. I know nobody like problems right?
The Troubling Chinese Mother-in-law Relationship
We had to share bathroom with her. I had no idea that living here would be so hard. After living there for just half a month, Zhang could not help but complain to her husband that the mother-in-law had asked her such questions since the second week as whether they had rented a house outside, when they could move out, and how they would split water and electricity bills. One thing I believe to be mostly true is that having hurt feelings is almost never ridiculous. E-mail this to a friend Printable version. Anyway, when I met her mother I tried to show that not only would I take care of her daughter but her as well. Also though she has critisized me on some points, at least from what my bf told me, it was usually sthing that was true.
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The oldest one then called and blamed me for the fact that she ate Burger King for Thanksgiving dinner. Do you agree with me that health is 1 on the list? While my boyfriend is a special person and I have spent 25 years with him, the abuse of me as a person who deserves some consideration in life has only gotten worse. Let the younger generation takes over the parenting part. They have certain expectations of their son, and I am not one of them. She left her husband, he is heartbroken and the mother sends me e-mails saying how spoiled my daughter was.
Couples of same ethnicities have this problem with MIL ,too, not just Asian and white couples. Sorry about such a long post. If you know that your future Chinese MIL is sweet or look like she is sweet and she is a total control freak , please talk with your man and ONLY live by yourselves. He provides his parents financial assistance I am fine with , but on the other hand his mother constantly demands him to take them traveling, new clothes, etc. She will monitor everything I do and tell me I am washing the dishes incorrectly. My daughters will make their decisions in child raising, finance managing, and other important decisions in their lives, I can advise, not demand. They backed down a little once I started being more direct and firm with them.